Last week, our community was buzzing with life as the "moe-maws" and "boe-paws" came out in full force. Thanksgiving week turned out to be a whirlwind of activity, filled with laughter and bustling energy. My wife, Hedy, and I are blessed with eight grandchildren ranging from 3 to 17 years old, each bringing their own unique spirit to our family gatherings.
The dynamics in our family are fascinating. The two boys at the ends of the age spectrum may seem like the obvious leaders, but our six granddaughters, with their intelligence and charm, command attention and affection in ways that are truly impressive. It’s these girls who often lead the charge, ensuring that everyone, including "Big Cuz" and "Li'l Cuz," falls under their delightful spell!
Hedy, who grew up in Holland, has a rich cultural background that has shaped how our children and grandchildren perceive family. Our daughters affectionately call Hedy's parents "oma" and "opa," a tradition that has carried over to the next generation. This special nomenclature helps create a unique bond that brings warmth to our family structure. It's heartwarming to see how these titles have become a cherished part of our grandchildren's lives, allowing them to feel connected to their roots.
What You Will Learn
- The importance of family traditions and cultural heritage in shaping relationships.
- How modern holiday dynamics have shifted from traditional to more chaotic celebrations.
- The role of grandparents in providing support during school holidays.
- The joy and challenges of navigating family gatherings with young children.
As the days of Thanksgiving approached, I couldn’t help but notice how the holiday has evolved over time. It used to be a simple affair, with schools observing the holiday only on Thursday and Friday. Now, the celebration seems to stretch over nine days, almost overshadowing the essence of Thanksgiving.
This transformation is concerning to me. Thanksgiving was once a time to reflect on the generosity of the land, share a bountiful meal, and cherish family moments. Sadly, it now feels like a mere pause before the rush towards Black Friday and Christmas, leaving little room for the true spirit of gratitude.
Yet, amidst this chaos, our experience as "moe-maws" and "boe-paws" has been truly rewarding. With the additional days off from school, parents often find themselves juggling work and childcare responsibilities. This is where Hedy and I step in, ready to embrace the challenge of entertaining our grandchildren while their parents are busy.
In the past week, I have witnessed countless families spending time at shopping malls, indulging in holiday activities like visiting Santa and enjoying movie outings, all with grandparents in tow. The excitement in the air is palpable, and I find joy in being a part of these vibrant family moments.
As I glanced around, I saw many other grandparents, all of us in our 60s and 70s, holding hands with our little ones, sharing in the joy of the season. The smiles on children’s faces remind me just how precious these moments are. However, by the end of the day, I often find myself yearning for a nap, as the energy of the day takes its toll!
As we continue to navigate this fast-paced world, I hope everyone finds a way to cherish their family traditions and experiences. May your Thanksgiving celebrations be filled with love, laughter, and, of course, a little bit of chaos!
Hope your Thanksgiving was blessed!
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JIM CARNETTlives in Costa Mesa. His column runs Tuesdays.
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